Sorta to the left and right of my chin, they've only just sprung up im guessing there just teenage spots?Are spots on the bottom of my cheeks just teenage spots?
Your probably right. That happened to me when I was like.. 4 or so? But just in case..
Vitiligo is a skin disease that causes loss of pigment in the first layer of your skin, the epidermis. Google it and look at the images.Are spots on the bottom of my cheeks just teenage spots?
TRY PROACTIVE IT WORKS GREAT FOR ME, ALSO YOU CAN TRY COCO BUTTER.
What kind of spots? like a faded color of your skin tone.
Had this problem when I was young myself. Put on lotion on your face regularly. It went away in a couple of days.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Can anyone give advice on how to deal with teenage daughter with symtoms of depression and low self essteem?
She also has a physical disabled called hyper-phosphates-anmeiarickets which has left her leg browed inward, she has insercure feeling about her appearance because of this. She has being crying alot and the thought of school makes it worst.Can anyone give advice on how to deal with teenage daughter with symtoms of depression and low self essteem?
1) Love - continue to be the rock for her.
2) Don't judge her emotions or tell her they are ';wrong'; - emotions just are.
3) Let her know her emotions are valid. Ask her how she is feeling and then when she answers, acknowledge the facts of the emotion without adding your own commentary.
4) HONESTY - Be honest with her about what you feel and think. Let her know it is you opinion, and she does not have to agree with it, but it is your honesty talking. For example, if she starts to bash herself, you can be honest with a comment such s ';When I hear you say that, my heart breaks. I love you deeply and I feel lost because I don't know how I can help you.';
Statements like this are more powerful than retorical questions like ';How am I supposed to help you?';
5) Support. Look into finding on-line support groups for others with the same problems. They also have good moderated groups for teens these days. I suggest an adult first present themselves as the teen to a group to judge the climate of the chat or email. Once that is verified, you can let the group know the situation and introduce your daughter.
Best of luck !!!!Can anyone give advice on how to deal with teenage daughter with symtoms of depression and low self essteem?
aww
is she ok?
well i have alot of girlfriends as in friends who are girls
and alot of them are that age when they are so insecure and have low self esteem (around 13-16)
and we know we would be nothing more than frieds
so when they are feeling down i say something like ';hello smiler, your hairs nice today or your makeup is nice';
something like that
i suggest that you always give your daughter compliments and maybe find her a friend like me
lol
it must also be hard for her with her physical disabily
and im going to be honest alot of the boys in my class are very yano shallow and are like eww shes ugly but that shouldnt annoy her i know personally i dont just go for looks i like a girl with a sense of humour and that can have fun
anywayzzz im sure shes beautiful in her own
even if its not outside but thats not everything
tell her i said hi
i really feel for your daughter. i know it tough in school especially if you feel different. i know this sounds very superfisial but if you can help her to feel beautiful then this would help alot. help her to keep up with fashion, encourage interaction with friends eg sleepovers etc, be there when she is at her lowest, be non judgemental about anything she is going though. be her friend, laugh with her and make sure she knows that whatever happens you are always there.
maybe help her find a hobbie she likes. this will help to focus her attention on other things. maybe a creative, expressive hobbie eg singing or painting may help her to get her feelings out. i sing and paint and painting is very theraputic. hope this helps and i hope your daughter gets through this. oh and give her stuff to look forward to. when times are tough it helps to have little events to look forward to. it will encourage her to get on with everyday life. x
She probably dosn't have friends either at least real true friends to hang out with and stuff. Its comon for teens to freak out about evrything like how they look if they have acne ..how tall they r etc If i were you i would see if teh disability could be fixed some how liek with a surgery or something.. i would ask her directly if she is depressed and i would aske her doctor who knowsa bout her disability if tehy could recommend a place for her to hang out with ppl with teh saem illness or a place liek a counselor or something who can help her gain confidence! Sometimes depression liek feelings are just a phase but usually they arn't ..it depends. R kids picking on her at school?? Complement her ask her if you can do something foe her and if its resonable do it, tell her she is beautiful, tell her you love her. Compliment her but make it natural and not all fake sounding be genuine about it.
Would your daughter (or you) like to talk to someone? Someone she doesn't know and who will listen in strict confidence.
I don't know where you are but there is a well-known charity called Samaritans. They have a website where contact information (email address and phone numbers, etc) is freely available. It is easy to find it on Yahoo!
I hope things work out for you all.
you have to find somewere that there is other people like her, or in the same situation as her, she probably feels like she is the only one, and feels alone. you have to show her that there is more to life and that there are a lot more people in her situation, meeting other people like herself will really help her.
try finding a online forum, and see if there are any meetings or support groups in you area.
Your local council will have counselling help,or your doctor will put you onto someone.She needs proffesional help under supervision.The samaritans also have contacts.http:/www.sort-out-stress.co.uk or http:/www.livinglifetothefull.com or http:/www.mind.org.uk
Good luck
She might be able to claim counselling via the NHS.
Also some form of physical exercise is normally very good for depression- perhaps a nearly morning swimming session. Those time slots are normally taken up by older people who will be nowhere near as judgemental as people of her own age.
Wish I could.
Spend some time with her without talking about it. Have some fun. Speak to the school and ask them how she is getting on there and ask for their advice.
Good luck.
1) Love - continue to be the rock for her.
2) Don't judge her emotions or tell her they are ';wrong'; - emotions just are.
3) Let her know her emotions are valid. Ask her how she is feeling and then when she answers, acknowledge the facts of the emotion without adding your own commentary.
4) HONESTY - Be honest with her about what you feel and think. Let her know it is you opinion, and she does not have to agree with it, but it is your honesty talking. For example, if she starts to bash herself, you can be honest with a comment such s ';When I hear you say that, my heart breaks. I love you deeply and I feel lost because I don't know how I can help you.';
Statements like this are more powerful than retorical questions like ';How am I supposed to help you?';
5) Support. Look into finding on-line support groups for others with the same problems. They also have good moderated groups for teens these days. I suggest an adult first present themselves as the teen to a group to judge the climate of the chat or email. Once that is verified, you can let the group know the situation and introduce your daughter.
Best of luck !!!!Can anyone give advice on how to deal with teenage daughter with symtoms of depression and low self essteem?
aww
is she ok?
well i have alot of girlfriends as in friends who are girls
and alot of them are that age when they are so insecure and have low self esteem (around 13-16)
and we know we would be nothing more than frieds
so when they are feeling down i say something like ';hello smiler, your hairs nice today or your makeup is nice';
something like that
i suggest that you always give your daughter compliments and maybe find her a friend like me
lol
it must also be hard for her with her physical disabily
and im going to be honest alot of the boys in my class are very yano shallow and are like eww shes ugly but that shouldnt annoy her i know personally i dont just go for looks i like a girl with a sense of humour and that can have fun
anywayzzz im sure shes beautiful in her own
even if its not outside but thats not everything
tell her i said hi
i really feel for your daughter. i know it tough in school especially if you feel different. i know this sounds very superfisial but if you can help her to feel beautiful then this would help alot. help her to keep up with fashion, encourage interaction with friends eg sleepovers etc, be there when she is at her lowest, be non judgemental about anything she is going though. be her friend, laugh with her and make sure she knows that whatever happens you are always there.
maybe help her find a hobbie she likes. this will help to focus her attention on other things. maybe a creative, expressive hobbie eg singing or painting may help her to get her feelings out. i sing and paint and painting is very theraputic. hope this helps and i hope your daughter gets through this. oh and give her stuff to look forward to. when times are tough it helps to have little events to look forward to. it will encourage her to get on with everyday life. x
She probably dosn't have friends either at least real true friends to hang out with and stuff. Its comon for teens to freak out about evrything like how they look if they have acne ..how tall they r etc If i were you i would see if teh disability could be fixed some how liek with a surgery or something.. i would ask her directly if she is depressed and i would aske her doctor who knowsa bout her disability if tehy could recommend a place for her to hang out with ppl with teh saem illness or a place liek a counselor or something who can help her gain confidence! Sometimes depression liek feelings are just a phase but usually they arn't ..it depends. R kids picking on her at school?? Complement her ask her if you can do something foe her and if its resonable do it, tell her she is beautiful, tell her you love her. Compliment her but make it natural and not all fake sounding be genuine about it.
Would your daughter (or you) like to talk to someone? Someone she doesn't know and who will listen in strict confidence.
I don't know where you are but there is a well-known charity called Samaritans. They have a website where contact information (email address and phone numbers, etc) is freely available. It is easy to find it on Yahoo!
I hope things work out for you all.
you have to find somewere that there is other people like her, or in the same situation as her, she probably feels like she is the only one, and feels alone. you have to show her that there is more to life and that there are a lot more people in her situation, meeting other people like herself will really help her.
try finding a online forum, and see if there are any meetings or support groups in you area.
Your local council will have counselling help,or your doctor will put you onto someone.She needs proffesional help under supervision.The samaritans also have contacts.http:/www.sort-out-stress.co.uk or http:/www.livinglifetothefull.com or http:/www.mind.org.uk
Good luck
She might be able to claim counselling via the NHS.
Also some form of physical exercise is normally very good for depression- perhaps a nearly morning swimming session. Those time slots are normally taken up by older people who will be nowhere near as judgemental as people of her own age.
Wish I could.
Spend some time with her without talking about it. Have some fun. Speak to the school and ask them how she is getting on there and ask for their advice.
Good luck.
How do I go about finding a really hip, young, cool mental health councillor for my teenage daughter without?
scheduling 1,000 appts. to check each Dr. out? Is there a referral hotline somewhere or a network where I can check out each Drs. specialties?How do I go about finding a really hip, young, cool mental health councillor for my teenage daughter without?
You can ask your daughter's primary care physician, she should have a list of doctors to tell you about. You can also check with her school counselors, and if you know of any of her friends in counseling, you could talk to their parents. You still may have to check out a few doctors before you find the right one, though.How do I go about finding a really hip, young, cool mental health councillor for my teenage daughter without?
I would first check with her school for referrals. You may also be able to ask the counselor him/herself if they have references from patients.
In my experience with my son, you may have to make several appointments with a few counselors to see if they 'click'. Also, keep in mind that if she isn't willing to go, she may not click with any of them, unfortunately. I found his through many searches, referals and a lot of heartache, but I am able to say I am very proud of my son today. He has come a long way. Having no idea what your challenges are at this point, the only real advice I can give you from one mom's heart to another is hang in there and don't give up.
Good luck Comet xoxoxo
Try LDS Family Services.
I know that they have many ';really hip, young, cool mental health counselors'; there. Including me :)
Find a large counseling group in your area and call them. They can help you find who you are looking for within their group. Worked beautifully for my daughter.... she loves her counselor.
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You can ask your daughter's primary care physician, she should have a list of doctors to tell you about. You can also check with her school counselors, and if you know of any of her friends in counseling, you could talk to their parents. You still may have to check out a few doctors before you find the right one, though.How do I go about finding a really hip, young, cool mental health councillor for my teenage daughter without?
I would first check with her school for referrals. You may also be able to ask the counselor him/herself if they have references from patients.
In my experience with my son, you may have to make several appointments with a few counselors to see if they 'click'. Also, keep in mind that if she isn't willing to go, she may not click with any of them, unfortunately. I found his through many searches, referals and a lot of heartache, but I am able to say I am very proud of my son today. He has come a long way. Having no idea what your challenges are at this point, the only real advice I can give you from one mom's heart to another is hang in there and don't give up.
Good luck Comet xoxoxo
Try LDS Family Services.
I know that they have many ';really hip, young, cool mental health counselors'; there. Including me :)
Find a large counseling group in your area and call them. They can help you find who you are looking for within their group. Worked beautifully for my daughter.... she loves her counselor.
try
http://www.onlinecounsellingservice.co.u鈥?/a>
What are some really pretty handwriting styles for a teenage girl that are easy to read and quick to write?
I would like something swirly and elegant. But my last handwriting went completely fucked up when I did this cos I tried to write so fast. Pictures would be useful.
xx~What are some really pretty handwriting styles for a teenage girl that are easy to read and quick to write?
http://www.schoolfonts.com
xx~What are some really pretty handwriting styles for a teenage girl that are easy to read and quick to write?
http://www.schoolfonts.com
What is the most annoying thing about the current teenage generation?
I am a part of the current teenage generation but I feel that my generation should be ashamed of itself. Many are spoiled rotten and don't care about anything but themselves, many are judgemental and quite nasty to their peers. I'm not like this and my friends aren't but lots of people are. What does everyone else think about my generation?What is the most annoying thing about the current teenage generation?
I think the current generation has embraced moral relativism, i.e. what's good for you is good for you, what's good for me is good for me, and there is no absolute truth %26amp; whatever anyone believes is okay. That is a very dangerous way of thinking. How do we maintain law and order as a society with a group of people who think right and wrong are not absolutes?What is the most annoying thing about the current teenage generation?
The question should be ';What do you think of my generation's parents?';
It's not the kids who should be questioned.
I'm 19 so i'm almost out of being a teenager.
but what i hate is how everybody is lazy %26amp; doesn't give a crap about anybody plus the manners. oh and how everybody drinks alot.. come on.
i sometimes think i grew up in the wrong decade.
Its really not their fault. They were raised by a bunch of people who view discipline as cruel and unusual punishment.
just look at paris hilton
rude and cluesless about life. But i do like that race is not a big issue with them
... ';spoiled rotten and don't care about anything but themselves, many are judgemental and quite nasty to their peers';... This just describes teenagers of every generation. Teenagers were the same way when I was one, when my kids were teenagers, and I'm sure when my parents were teenagers. It just seems bad now because you're right in the thick of it. Eventually some will grow out of it, and if you're one who's not like this then you'll gravitate toward others who get past the selfish teenage years. So buck up...it gets better.
I have a teen, and THANK GOD she's her own person and not a follower. Most of the teens are petty, spoiled, misguided, and untrustworthy. I blame the parents 100%!!!!!
Our generation is spoiled and lazy; teens nowadays don't understand grammar, either.
I think the current generation has embraced moral relativism, i.e. what's good for you is good for you, what's good for me is good for me, and there is no absolute truth %26amp; whatever anyone believes is okay. That is a very dangerous way of thinking. How do we maintain law and order as a society with a group of people who think right and wrong are not absolutes?What is the most annoying thing about the current teenage generation?
The question should be ';What do you think of my generation's parents?';
It's not the kids who should be questioned.
I'm 19 so i'm almost out of being a teenager.
but what i hate is how everybody is lazy %26amp; doesn't give a crap about anybody plus the manners. oh and how everybody drinks alot.. come on.
i sometimes think i grew up in the wrong decade.
Its really not their fault. They were raised by a bunch of people who view discipline as cruel and unusual punishment.
just look at paris hilton
rude and cluesless about life. But i do like that race is not a big issue with them
... ';spoiled rotten and don't care about anything but themselves, many are judgemental and quite nasty to their peers';... This just describes teenagers of every generation. Teenagers were the same way when I was one, when my kids were teenagers, and I'm sure when my parents were teenagers. It just seems bad now because you're right in the thick of it. Eventually some will grow out of it, and if you're one who's not like this then you'll gravitate toward others who get past the selfish teenage years. So buck up...it gets better.
I have a teen, and THANK GOD she's her own person and not a follower. Most of the teens are petty, spoiled, misguided, and untrustworthy. I blame the parents 100%!!!!!
Our generation is spoiled and lazy; teens nowadays don't understand grammar, either.
How frequently do teenage females masturbate if they will only do it when they ';really'; need to?
By ';really need to'; I mean if they don't care about holding out, or maybe 'when they really feel like it';.How frequently do teenage females masturbate if they will only do it when they ';really'; need to?
i just do it whenever im horny. this question is like asking how long is a piece of string, theres no definite answer.How frequently do teenage females masturbate if they will only do it when they ';really'; need to?
Before I was sexually active... MAYBE once a week, usually longer.
Now that I am... never.
Sexually active- never.
Not... - a few times a week
I'd NEED to about..twice a month.
I do 4 times a week
i just do it whenever im horny. this question is like asking how long is a piece of string, theres no definite answer.How frequently do teenage females masturbate if they will only do it when they ';really'; need to?
Before I was sexually active... MAYBE once a week, usually longer.
Now that I am... never.
Sexually active- never.
Not... - a few times a week
I'd NEED to about..twice a month.
I do 4 times a week
Do you know of any movie auditions for a teenage girl in KY or the surrounding states?
I have been in multiple plays and musicals before and I love to act and sing. I'm about 5' 2'; and I don't really have a clue how to find auditions.Do you know of any movie auditions for a teenage girl in KY or the surrounding states?
Your best bet in that region is to write to the Nashville, Tennessee Chamber of Commerce and see if there is any movie activity going on there. Of course, there are also television opportunities there because of the country music industry, also worth a try.
Your best bet in that region is to write to the Nashville, Tennessee Chamber of Commerce and see if there is any movie activity going on there. Of course, there are also television opportunities there because of the country music industry, also worth a try.
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